Initial Consultation
50 minutes
We’ll focus on what’s on your mind right now and discuss what might help you move forward.
The four-phase model was developed by anthropologist Kalervo Oberg, who published it in 1960. It begins with euphoria: everything is new and exciting, the differences seem charming, and, according to Oberg, this feeling can last from a few days or weeks up to six months. Then comes disillusionment, which Oberg himself described as a crisis, when everyday life begins and the little irritations start to add up: government agencies, language, and different social customs.
In the third phase, recovery, a sense of humor returns: You develop routines, understand the rules of the game, and find your way on your own. The final phase is adaptation: The new country feels familiar, without the old one fading as a result. Oberg’s model describes possible experiences, not a fixed sequence. Hardly anyone goes through the four phases in a neat, sequential order; not everyone experiences all of them, and for some, the initial euphoria is completely absent. And sometimes, while living abroad, an older issue grows louder, one that stems from your own formative experiences. Returning to Germany can also trigger its own culture shock.
For making sense of it, the current stress and the local support matter, less so the position in a phase model. Where no one locally speaks your language, a psychologist who provides online counseling is accessible even from a distance. If the disillusionment seems never-ending, the same applies as with homesickness: German-language counseling helps with making sense of it, and in cases of persistent or severely distressing symptoms, a medical or psychotherapeutic assessment is also called for.
Via videoWorldwide
50 minutes
We’ll focus on what’s on your mind right now and discuss what might help you move forward.
90 minutes
Time to describe your situation calmly and work on what is especially important to you.
All prices are final. No VAT will be charged.
1 × 50 minutes
Another look at a current concern. Or a session from time to time.
5 × 50 minutes
Explore a topic in depth, draw on everyday experiences, and work together to determine what helps you.
10 × 50 minutes
Regular support over an extended period of your life, with room for new developments.
The packages consist only of 50-minute sessions. The initial consultation is booked and billed separately. If this arrangement doesn’t work out for you, I’ll refund you the amount for the remaining package sessions.
The initial consultation is a 50- or 90-minute counseling session for which a fee is charged. We’ll get to know each other and begin working on your concerns right away. Afterward, you can decide whether you’d like to schedule additional sessions.
You can leave it at a single session or book additional appointments individually. A package is another option if you’ve decided to have multiple sessions.
You don’t need to write anything out in detail. If you’d like, you can jot down what’s on your mind and what you hope to get out of the session. For the video call, you’ll need a quiet place, a stable internet connection, and a camera and microphone.
Before your first paid session, you will receive information regarding services, fees, payment, canceling appointments, and confidentiality. The agreement also explains how personal data is handled and how the relationship is terminated.
This counseling service is available to self-pay clients. I do not bill health insurance for this service.