I’ve been working exclusively online since early 2024. Since then, I’ve heard several times, especially from less stable clients, that they would like in-person treatment. If you’re feeling really bad right now, I would definitely try to arrange in-person treatment if I were you. But before you end up with no one for the longer term, or if you want to seek counseling first or get your bearings, you’ll probably find what you’re looking for sooner online.
I’ve experienced both formats, as a client and as a therapist. I’m also currently getting online support from a psychotherapist in Germany whom I had previously seen at her practice. Intuitively, I would always prefer in-person treatment. However, working via video never struck me as a second-best solution.
Psychotherapy over the phone can also offer advantages in certain situations. Some people feel less observed on the phone and are able to relax more easily. Since the visual aspect is missing, other aspects such as tone of voice and content come more into focus. About one-third of my patients preferred it, and I haven’t seen any difference in quality. Research points in the same direction, with a caveat that is part of the picture: in a randomized study in the journal JAMA, patients dropped out of treatment considerably less often over the phone than in the practice, 20.9 percent versus 32.7 percent, and fared just as well at the end of treatment. Six months later, however, the in-person group was doing better. In my experience, psychotherapeutic treatment worked as well over the phone as in person.
In my view, online therapy is not equivalent to in-person therapy in every situation, but neither is it a stopgap measure that inevitably leads to poorer outcomes.
I now offer psychological counseling myself, not psychotherapy or treatment. My way of working is shaped by psychodynamic psychotherapy and Gestalt therapy. In Gestalt counseling by video, the aim is to notice more precisely what you feel and what you want.